This news story was too interesting to ignore. An American man is seeking an annulment after he found out that his Filipino bride turned out to be gay. BAYOT diaY!
Of course, the bride has to have his side heard. Check out this posting from GMA News: The bride claims that his groom knew that the bride was gay and promised him sex change surgery in Thailand.
There are a couple of points that I wonder about regarding this issue and they are not addressed in these news articles:
- Who officiated their wedding? Wa kabantay na bayot ang bride?
- What about the bride’s family? Surely, they must know that in the Philippines, their ‘daughter’ cannot legally marry a man.
I am friends with a lot of gay guys in the Philippines. And yes, a lot of them are really pretty. Prettier than any average girl, even. All of them are genuinely nice and sweet people on the inside. Most of them are educated and smart and successful in their fields. The only thing that is hard for them to deal with is that they feel that they should be female but unfortunately have male bodies.
I can imagine the groom’s “shock and horror” (as the newspaper reported). To a lot of guys, this is probably one of their worst nightmares. To fall in love and marry someone, only on your wedding night, you don’t get what you expect. If this was not a true story, I’d say this is really funny.
Even more vividly, I can imagine the bride’s pain and how heartbroken he must be. To be rejected like that and then to have to deal with the ridicule (i’m sure daghan) later.
One of these two people is lying. I think I know who, but I won’t say it. What I can say is caveat emptor.